Thursday, September 4, 2008

This might make you mad

Ive got beef.
No, not the beef I'm thawing for tonight's dinner (Layered Southwestern Bake--recipe to follow!) But I've got a major problem with Mormon's and people's assumptions of a Mormon's political views. For some reason, I've been bombarded with it lately (I guess I bring it upon myself, reading so many Mormon-blogs) But I have a NEWS FLASH for everyone--- CONSERVATIVE REPUBLICAN is NOT SYNONYMOUS WITH MORMON! To be honest with you, I hate the LABELING one way or the other. I was going to write a whole big schpeal about why I think as a Latter Day Saint Barack Obama is actually the BEST canidate for someone with our belief system...but I am just not well-versed enough like many of you. However, I came across this one man's blog and I really like what he had to say. So please, humor this. I don't agree with everything he writes--but pretty darn close. The one thing I want to bring up before I paste his article is this: Pro-Life/Pro-Choice and Gay Unions. I know this is always the most heated argument with Christians. Personally, ME, as a woman and mother WOULD NEVER, EVER want anyone to feel the only option for her is abortion....HOWEVER, being PRO CHOICE allows OTHERS (who are most likely NOT OF MY FAITH) to exercise her free will. She will live with that her whole life, and hopefully someone like us, can befriend her and teach her the way, but if that never happens---in the end, the ONE who is to judge her will be Heavenly Father---NOT ME. In addition to that, the thing that IRRITATES me the MOST about "Republicans" is that they are so AVIDLY Pro-Life---- you SUPPORT that BABY while its in the mother's womb and call it MURDER and NEGLECT and IRRESPONSIBILITY...but once that baby is born to the single mother who can't hardly get the hours for a part-time job and can't afford someone to watch the baby.....You are out of the picture---you don't want programs and help for the single mother to make a safe life for that you will let that PRECIOUS LIFE that you worked SO HARD TO SAVE, but then leave them in the dust, with NO help and NO future. Fair? I think not. Gay Unions: I whole-heartedly believe in EVERY word the Family Proclaimation declares. Again, the entire United States are NOT LDS...they don't have the same values or belief system we have. How dare we tell a couple who is in love that they can't be together? Union---"not marriage" is the title I think it should have. We have to remember to LOVE these people...our BROTHERS AND SISTERS...and understand that WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT STRUGGLES. Let them live the way that they wish and be happy---and let us rejoice in our ETERNAL COVENANTS that we KNOW to be what Heavenly Father has approved--Someday THEY too will know of the truths, and everything will be sorted out in the END. Instead of TEARING people down that have DIFFERENT morals and VALUES, lets just WORK on OURSELVES and help others as HONESTLY and SINCERELY as we can. Phew. Now for the article.

With Mitt Romney out of the presidential race, who might the Mormon faithful back?

Of course, the Church is officially neutral on political candidates and parties (thank goodness). But let’s be honest, Romney’s failed attempt at the presidency has got to upset a lot of Latter-day Saints, who overwhelming backed Romney (at least in Utah), and who seem to not be very fond of John McCain or Mike Huckabee, not to mention Hillary Clinton.

But Latter-day Saints I have talked to have a fairly favorable view of another presidential candidate: Barack Obama.

Is it possible for a good number of Latter-day Saints to turn to this inspiring new face as their preferred presidential candidate?

I realize that I am facing incredible odds in this question of mine — 1964 was the last time a Democrat (Lyndon B. Johnson) took the state of Utah. But still, I think that if Latter-day Saints will take seriously the counsel of the late Gordon B. Hinckley, and vote for the best person, regardless of party (as he did throughout his life, voting for both Republicans and Democrats), then maybe, just maybe, Obama will gain support among the LDS faithful.

Let me be upfront. I am not a Democrat. I consider myself to be historically conservative and currently moderate. I have grown to be disenchanted by the Bush administration, as I’m sure many of my fellow Latter-day Saints have been. I was in support of the Iraq war at first, but now I realize that it was a major mistake and an abuse of power, and that it is not in the best interest of America or Iraq for us to stay there. Whatever good is being done there is negated three times over — by its costs in American and Iraqi lives, American dollars, and the continually neglected threat of terrorists in Afghanistan.

In regards to Iraq, we can’t simply say, “Well, what will happen if we pull out?” We need to also say, “What is happening, right here and right now, by our continuing to stay in?” I know that some Mormons are in total support of the war for various reasons. But can we really continue to let our troops — fathers and mothers — go back time after time after time to fight a war that is questionable? Our wonderful troops have sacrificed so much, and unless we have a draft or enlist many more individuals (your sons and daughters), we cannot continue to fight this war. It simply must end. I daresay that even some of my reddest fellow Saints are frightened by McCain’s assertion that we could be in Iraq for 100 years. A vote for John McCain is a vote for George Bush’s war. It’s a vote for the continued loss of American and Iraqi lives. It’s a vote for billions and billions of dollars to be spent — who will pay for it? It’s a vote for neglecting more serious needs — Afghanistan, Darfur and other genocides, our children’s educations, our own economy, and so on.

Conservatives worry about how liberals will raise taxes, but it is unrealistic to think that we can continue in this war, as we are, without either raising taxes or seriously depriving our children and others of crucial resources. It is not honest. It is not responsible. Either we hike taxes and stay in the war, or we get out. There’s no other honest way about it. (Remember the LDS principles of buying what you can pay for.) We need to be careful and measured about how we leave, which Obama wants to do, but let us be honest — we cannot keep fighting. The Iraqi government needs to take responsibility, and we need to move on. It is not unpatriotic, nor is it neglectful of our troops, to suggest that we need to move on if it really is true. Mitt Romney’s father George Romney, along with the rest of the nation, realized this about Vietnam. We need to follow his lead and realize it about Iraq.

Regarding the economy, I used to be in support of conservative principles, but I have grown to be fed up with the philosophy of giving tax breaks to the rich and not taking seriously the health care crisis in our country. (Obama, by the way, is not interested in raising taxes, but repealing the Bush tax cuts for those who make over $250,000. This group never asked for these tax cuts, nor do they need them, and the past several years have shown our economy to be worse off, not better, since their inception. Moreover, that these tax cuts have coincided with an ultra-expensive war is unbelievably dishonest.)

I have grown to realize that my religious beliefs require me to take the plight of struggling working families seriously, to no longer hide their faces behind an economic trickle-down curtain that allows me to ignore the growing poverty in our country. Like my fellow Latter-day Saints, I am sure, I am afraid that economic classes are being more polarized, that the rich are getting richer and the poor are getting poorer. The middle class is shrinking. Selfishness is rampant. We have great need to worry, and the gospel of Jesus Christ is our only hope.

It is because of my belief in Jesus Christ that I believe we need a new political direction in our country. No, it won’t solve all our problems, and the Church will continue to grow to be independent and shine as a source of light and hope for all to see. But a new political direction can help us to better serve those who are need, and to better interface with the world around us. I envision a new type of political involvement among Latter-day Saints, in which Republicans, Democrats, and Independents work together in tackling the problems of our day. I am tired of political division. I am tired of political campaigns and platforms being bought by lobbyists, many of which do not really care about you or me.

President Hinckley would never have voted for someone simply because of his or her political party. What about you? Are you willing to entertain voting for a Democrat because it is for the good for the country? Are you willing to consider anew your political commitments and obligations? President Hinckley voted for individuals (Republicans and Democratics), not parties, as he has said in media interviews. So I ask, who is the best PERSON?

May I suggest that, in my opinion, the best person currently in the race is Barack Obama. If we can look past partisan politics, I think more will start seeing this. More and more Mormons are seeing it everyday. He is the friendliest candidate to taking faith seriously in the public square. He wants to unite the country, not divide us. He is a deeply religious man who takes his Christian faith seriously. He is one of the most “fair-minded” public figures that I have ever known of. He prays every day that he will be fair to others, that he will give them the benefit of the doubt. I encourage you to listen to his speech on the role of faith and politics, located on his web site.

I don’t agree with him on everything. I am very much pro-life and he is pro-choice, for example. I wish he would consider more of a pro-life position. But he is more concerned with fighting for sexual responsibility and decreasing abortions than he is about fighting about ideologies, which never gets us anywhere anyway. He is also very willing to continue to have a fair-minded conversation with pro-life Americans about the abortion issue, and what we can best do as a nation right now. Perhaps we should consider entering this conversation, rather than merely fighting about legal issues. Perhaps, just perhaps, such an approach will help us get the values of responsible sexuality into the hearts of American men and women. It really is a problem of the heart, isn’t it?

Consistent with our concern for innocent human lives, let us not forget that a war has and is continuing to claim thousands of lives, both soldiers and civilians. That a genocide in Darfur is claiming hundreds of thousands of lives and has displaced millions. That there are hard working families in our country who have a father or mother die because they don’t have adequate health care. Let us not allow an ideological fight (such as abortion) to keep us from taking seriously the pressing needs of our society. We have a responsibility to our citizens and to the world. This responsibility transcends political bickering. We have a responsibility to a troubled world to set an example as walkers of peace, as solvers of problems.

Obama also has compassion for our brothers and sisters from other nations, including those who have come into this country undocumented, often working long hours with little wages to support their families. Let us never forget, as our Church leaders have cautioned Utah legislators recently, that “illegal” immigrants are our brothers and sisters. Many are our fellow Saints. Obama is taking the immigration issue seriously, but he is also opposed to the radical and dehumanizing plans of some, such as punishing ordinary citizens who help out illegal immigrants or busing law-abiding immigrants back over the border. I have found that most of my fellow Latter-day Saints are much more compassionate regarding immigration than many other Americans are, while at the same time realizing that we need to work hard at solving the problem. Obama feels the same way, and he also realizes that much of the problem is due to NAFTA, signed into law by President Clinton, and other problematic American trade policies.

In addition to being the most faith-friendly candidate, I think he is also the most family-friendly candidate. One of his biggest concerns is fatherless homes. He is concerned about parents not taking responsibility for their children’s media watching. He is concerned with hard working families who don’t make enough to even begin to make ends meet. I encourage you to take a look at his issues in this regard on his website.

Obama is also the candidate who best approaches the LDS communitarian ethic. Politically speaking, he is not unlike Joseph Smith. His approach revolves around “we,” not “me.” His movement is completely invested by average Americans working together, many of whom have never been involved politically before. He has a charisma that inspires people to realize that they really can make a difference in this world. He desires to reach beyond petty bickering and divisions, realizing, as did Joseph Smith, that we can move beyond our differences and work together for positive change in the world.

Moreover, I think that he is the candidate who is the friendliest to the Mormon faith. He doesn’t demean LDS beliefs as Mike Huckabee did. He has strong family values and has been faithfully committed to one wife, unlike John McCain. In fact, his wife Michelle Obama recently visited with Elders Ballard and Cook about how we can better help American families. Take a look on the Church’s website.

I envision that an Obama presidential administration would be a very friendly place for LDS leaders to work with in order to tackle our common goals. I’m unsure if I can say the same thing about John McCain or Hillary Clinton.

In conclusion, I ask:

Is backing Obama in line with our political obligations?

Yes it is.

Should we consider rallying behind such a leader?

Yes we should.

Can we?

Yes we can.

Michelle Obama with Elder Quentin L Cook and Elder Russell Ballard.

Layered Southwestern Bake

1 lb. ground beef
2 onions, chopped
1 green pepper, chopped
1/4 cup frozen green peas
1/2 t. chili powder
1/2 t. red pepper flakes
14.5 oz can tomatoes, drained and diced
1/4 cup tomato paste
15 1/4 oz can kidney beans, drained and rinsed
11 oz can corn, drained
4 6-inch corn tortillas, quartered
1/3 cup shredded cheddar cheese

Combine beef, onions and pepper in a large skillet; cook over medium heat until beef is browned and onions are tender. Drain. Add peas; sprinkle with chili powder and pepper flakes. Stir in tomatoes and paste; reduce heat to low and simmer for 5 minutes. Add beans and corn; stir to combine. Spoon half the mixture into a greased 11x7 baking pan; top with half the tortilla quarters. Layer with remaining beef mixture. Cover and bake at 350 degrees for 25 minutes. Remove cover and top with remaining tortillas and cheese. Bake an additional 10 minutes or until cheese is melted. Serves 4 to 6.

*garnish with some lettuce/tomatoes/sourcream/olives...whatever taco fillings you like!*

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Brianne's Baby Shower

The thing I was most nervous about happening when making the invitations for Brianne's baby shower was that I wouldn't make enough. I made 35, and I think I pretty much got everybody (except I forgot to keep one for myself!!! which isnt a biggie.....but I know there must have been a few people missing on Sunday because of the holiday....I know I didn't see Sister Ripley, and Im sure there are others---I dont want anyone to think I intentionally DIDNT invite them. SO, im just posting the info JUST in CASE anyone needs the info.
(Okay, and so I can show off to the the online-world how stinkin' cute the invites are. Well, I think they're stinkin cute, hopefully you all do too!)

(My favorite part of the invitations was the carmel-apple lollipops inside. I didnt take a picture, but I had a tag that read: you are the apple of my eye that was tied with raffia. I love those pops, but they were hard to find in AUGUST! (another reason I only made 35 invitations, because they only had 32 pops left at the sweet shop in the mall!)

Anyway, here is the information, in case you can't read off from the picture:

Brianne is having a baby girl
Lets Celebrate!

Thursday, September 25th
7:30 pm

Sister Jennifer Baird's home

by September 18th